Is He in Love with You -- or in Lust with You?

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Is He in Love with You -- or in Lust with You?

Love and lust are inextricably intertwined. Lust is ground zero for hormones — it's nature's way of bringing the opposite sexes together to mate. In fact, without lust, it's doubtful that love between a man and a woman would have a chance to prosper at all.And love is the most ennobling of human emotions — transcendental, exalted and capable of engendering emotional states that can make the male of the species "want to be a better man." Men fight wars over lust, but they make homes and families for love.
Here are some of the tips to know
It's lust if:
You're totally focused on her looks and body
You don't care about anything she has to say
You only want to be with her to have sex
She's your booty call
You leave after sex

It's love if:
You have great chemistry
You find her beautiful
You want to spend time with her
You see a future together
You introduce her to your family
You include her in all your plans
You are more romantic
You always take her side
She makes you want to be a better man

Lust is short-term fun; love is the long haul. Even though the two sometimes masquerade as each other, you should be able to tell the difference. The real trick is in deciding what you want, and that's up to you.
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